Can I just say that I am beyond tired of talking about people's jobs and how it effects them? Between my mother and my husband I. AM. DONE. Get the frig over it already will you?? WTF. I work 24/7 and am tired as all get out but I PUSH THE F* THROUGH. Every single day. And you know what? God forbid I complain about a bad day or attitudes I get from the kids or just vent about something little. Then I get the "well that's just being a mom" crap along with other judgmental comments...from both of them. Makes me want to just say "yep, everything is great." Seriously. Why is it okay for THEM to complain at any and every chance they get but it's not okay for ME to do it? What makes motherhood so different from a secular job outside the home??? Nothing.
And Kenny, for the love, get the F* over the housework. Really??? Do you understand that I pick shit up (sometimes the same shit over and over and over again) all day long and HALF of that shit is YOUR shit and you have the NERVE to come home and say that the house isn't as picked up as you would like?!?! If I cleaned as much as you expect me to I wouldn't be able to spend much time with the kids and I'm sorry but I refuse to let housework come before the kids. I know YOU are okay with putting stuff before the kids. I mean really, what dad cleans up the kitchen before feeding their kids breakfast. Sorry buddy. Kids come first. Before anything. No matter what. Your priorities are so out of whack and you wonder why I don't want to be intimate with you (now that's a whole other post). Something. Sometimes. Is going to fall through the cracks. Can't you just accept that? Can't you be a little understanding that this is the season we're in right now because we have small kids?! It's not going to be like this forever. Can you just get the F* over it??? And why is it okay for YOU to keep putting stuff off that I've asked you to do over and over again but it's not okay for me when I actually have a good excuse? I swear I married my father which is something I was trying so friggin' hard to avoid.
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